Just to be sure we're on the same page, high carbonation doesn't necessarily equate to a good head... I've brewed some champagne-sparkly beers with piss-all for a head, probably due to poor mashing technique, the wrong mashing schedule, or bad choice of ingredients, or most probably a combination of all that.
That said, as long as you're sure fermentation is complete (take gravity readings over several days) increasing the priming a bit probably won't result in time bombs. Do it incrementally in sanely-sized steps over several batches and stop when you're happy with the bubbliness ("just brew it...")
I don't actually have a gram scale, so I go with the "3/4 cup dextrose for 5 gallons" rule, and eyeball up to a quarter cup more or less depending on what I'm shooting for. It makes me feel like a fancy artiste although it's less repeatable (don't really care about repeatability, personally). I've never created bottle bombs doing it that way, either.