The way to exit out of a recipe without saving any changes is to click on 'cancel' right next to the 'OK' button.
With regard to your estimation of ABV, I cited in my first response that there is no good way to estimate the fermentability of multiple rests within the fermentability range. I think you are looking to a definitive answer to a model which does not have the distinction to give you exacting results. The actual estimation of final gravity is very much dependent not only upon the fermentability of the wort, but also the health of the yeast, the strain of yeast used, fermentation temperatures, oxygenation of the wort prior to pitching the yeast, cell count of the yeast, etc. There are just too many factors that end up making small but inevitably significant differences in how much sugar gets converted into alcohol. The fermentability of the wort can also be affected by the age of the grains and storage conditions, the amount of enzymes present and ratio of base malt to adjuncts, unfermentable dextrins in the specialty malts, etc.
In the end, until you actually brew your beer using the steps you want will you really know the true ending gravity and ABV. Doing a forced fermentation test on a quart of wort will give you a target based upon the best possible fermentation you can achieve from that given wort so that you can identify the affects of other fermentation factors.