http://russianriverbrewing.com/web/bottle/index.html <-- Check this out Preston. This guy makes INCREDIBLE Belgian beers. Helluva nice guy too. Anyhoo. James, I love that you make your own candi sugar. That's awesome; and the infusions you are talking about, sounds incredible. I would love to have a recipe that you use. I would gladly trade you a slant of true belgian trappist yeast. As far as a brewpot with a spigot goes. If you know someone who can weld, just get yourself a 1/2" stainless coupler, an old keg, a 1/2" closed stainless nipple and a 1/2" stainless ball valve and away you go!
As far as the bottle conditioning goes. I will generally rack off the beer from the primary fermenter to a 5 gallon keg and chill it to let the yeast settle out and clear the beer up. I will then pull off as many pints as necessary to get clear beer from the keg. Then I let it warm up for a day. In the meantime I rehydrate the dried champagne or wine yeast in a small amount of wort on a stirplate. I then pitch the yeast into the warmed keg and shake it like crazy and bottle immediately. I want the yeast to be suspended in solution and evenly distributed when I bottle.
Darin